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DeepTalk guide

Good Questions to Ask Your Partner at Any Stage

Maybe you've been together three months and want to know who this person actually is. Maybe you've been together ten years and realized you haven't asked them anything new since 2019. Either way, you're looking for questions that go beyond the surface but don't feel like a therapy intake form.

How to do it in DeepTalk

01

Match the question to the moment

DeepTalk sorts questions into packs by mood, from light and funny to genuinely serious. On a random Tuesday, start light. Save the heavy stuff for when you both have the energy for it.

02

Make it a two-way street

Ask a question from the pack, hear them out, then answer it yourself. Your partner learns as much from your answer as you learn from theirs.

03

Mark what you want to come back to

Some questions will land at the wrong time. Save those in the app and bring them back on a long drive or a slow Sunday morning, when there's room to actually talk.