DeepTalk / Red & Green Flags
Red & Green Flags: 86 Conversation Questions
Signs to watch for in relationships.
- 1.What’s a red flag you’ve ignored before?
- 2.What’s a green flag you immediately noticed?
- 3.How do you recognize a toxic behavior early?
- 4.What’s a red flag in communication?
- 5.What behavior makes you feel safe and valued?
- 6.Have you ever stayed with someone despite red flags?
- 7.What’s a green flag in how they treat others?
- 8.What’s a red flag related to jealousy?
- 9.How do you respond to controlling behavior?
- 10.What’s a green flag in conflict resolution?
- 11.What’s a red flag in respect or boundaries?
- 12.How important is honesty as a green flag?
- 13.Have you ever called out a red flag successfully?
- 14.What’s a green flag in emotional support?
- 15.What’s a red flag in trust issues?
- 16.How do you spot passive-aggressive behavior?
- 17.What’s a green flag in how they listen to you?
- 18.What’s a red flag about their past relationships?
- 19.How do you handle inconsistency in words and actions?
- 20.What’s a green flag in vulnerability?
- 21.What’s a red flag related to manipulation?
- 22.How do you know when to walk away?
- 23.What’s a green flag in shared values?
- 24.What’s a red flag in how they handle money?
- 25.Have you ever ignored a red flag for love?
- 26.What’s a green flag in how they support your goals?
- 27.What’s a red flag in emotional availability?
- 28.How do you feel when they apologize sincerely?
- 29.What’s a green flag in how they deal with stress?
- 30.What’s a red flag in how they treat your friends?
- 31.Have you ever been surprised by a hidden red flag?
- 32.What’s a green flag in how they celebrate your successes?
- 33.What’s a red flag in respect for your time?
- 34.How do you feel about their honesty about flaws?
- 35.What’s a green flag in how they show affection?
- 36.What’s a red flag in communication frequency?
- 37.Have you ever experienced gaslighting?
- 38.What’s a green flag in shared humor?
- 39.What’s a red flag in ignoring your needs?
- 40.How important is mutual respect as a green flag?
- 41.What’s a red flag in emotional manipulation?
- 42.Have you ever felt trapped by a red flag?
- 43.What’s a green flag in willingness to compromise?
- 44.What’s a red flag in lack of accountability?
- 45.How do you spot love bombing?
- 46.What’s a green flag in consistent behavior?
- 47.What’s a red flag in avoidance of serious talks?
- 48.Have you ever set boundaries to avoid red flags?
- 49.What’s a green flag in how they handle disagreements?
- 50.What’s a red flag in disrespecting your boundaries?
- 51.How do you know when trust is broken beyond repair?
- 52.What’s a green flag in their relationship with family?
- 53.What’s a red flag in controlling your social life?
- 54.Have you ever forgiven a red flag that hurt you?
- 55.What’s a green flag in open and honest communication?
- 56.What’s a red flag in excessive criticism?
- 57.How do you feel when they support your independence?
- 58.What’s a green flag in how they prioritize your feelings?
- 59.What’s a red flag in how they react to jealousy?
- 60.Have you ever ignored red flags hoping they’d change?
- 61.What’s a green flag in their ability to apologize?
- 62.What’s a red flag in emotional coldness?
- 63.How do you spot love withdrawal?
- 64.What’s a green flag in respect for your opinions?
- 65.What’s a red flag in excessive possessiveness?
- 66.Have you ever felt gaslit by a partner?
- 67.What’s a green flag in consistency and reliability?
- 68.What’s a red flag in frequent mood swings?
- 69.How do you protect yourself from emotional abuse?
- 70.What’s a green flag in their level of empathy?
- 71.What’s a red flag in secretiveness?
- 72.Have you ever felt manipulated into guilt?
- 73.What’s a green flag in willingness to grow together?
- 74.What’s a red flag in constant blame shifting?
- 75.How do you feel when they respect your decisions?
- 76.What’s a green flag in how they handle their own emotions?
- 77.What’s a red flag in dismissing your feelings?
- 78.Have you ever stayed too long because of green flags?
- 79.What’s a green flag in their level of patience?
- 80.What’s a red flag in dishonesty about small things?
- 81.How do you spot a narcissistic partner?
- 82.What’s a green flag in mutual support?
- 83.What’s a red flag in undermining your confidence?
- 84.Have you ever felt emotionally drained by red flags?
- 85.What’s a green flag in how they show gratitude?
- 86.What’s a red flag in ignoring your boundaries repeatedly?